Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Extreme Rant Vol I :P .... soul mates, one word or two?

Do you believe in soul mates? Hmm...

I'm sure soul mates was an idea cooked up by some high flying idealist. Who wouldn't want to have a person that understands you completely. A person who sees through all your flaws and loves you for who you are. A person that YOU understand and love wholly and completely.

The words "soul mates" itself arouses curiosity. For those who believe in the soul and the spirit, would believe that all things living and non-living are connected by the energies that they posses. I believe that love is an energy. Something that burns inside of us, filling us with passion and wanting to be given out. It ain't that hard to understand, but yet nobody does. So then, what are "soul" mates?

4 comments:

Ritesh said...

Hi Crazy Monkey,
You force me to comment writing about 'soul mates'. Yes, your definition of soul mate is true, and I do agree it is difficult to find someone like that.

Just a thought but you know your flaws, you know your good and you still love yourself, you should actually, only then will someone be able to love you. For when you love yourself you learn the way of loving others, you understand what love feels like, not compleely but a little bit.

Anyone can be a 'soul mate', it may not be one of the opposite gender. Being in love does not mean you have found your soul mate, but being truly in love, understanding the person and the same from the other side may lead you to reaching the conclusion that ---Yes..he/she is my soul mate.

I believe ever since we begin to understand love, ever since we begin to understand companionship, we begin our search for a 'soul mate'...we may find one in friends, in our lover, or in family, but you if you don't look for one...you won't find one...all treasure has to be hunted either intentionally or unintentionally.

Being sexually involved with someone does not mean he or she become your soul mate because you shared your bodies with each other, but you may not call your sex partner when your in a problem...what you need to do is to submit yourself from inside and outside.

In front of your soul mate you do not need to pretend, if your cruel, he or she will love your cruelty, if your ugly then he or she will love you ugly but you will be beautiful for him or her.

External appearance don't matter to a soul mate because your voice over the phone can be enough to love, to attract. Love is an energy, I can relate to it ans 'soul mate is a treasure that brings this love...I am in search of one.

Good One Udai. Need more of these to provoke me to think and to express....

Take Care

Ritzzzz

Anonymous said...

in other words...anyone who falls in love with their soul mate is technically a modern day Narcissus. Fell in love with his own reflection etc. If you fall in love with someone like you, you're falling in love with yourself. Not fun!:P

Udai Kapila said...

karishma... thats not what i meant to say...but i know ... i have a special way with words :P:P.

Wether or not one can relate best with a person that he or she has a lot in common with, completely depends on the type of person that they are...

but is it possible for two people to just bump into each other on a street, and when their eyes meet, they just get lost into each other's aura. is it possible to fall in love with a person that you've never met before?

I think that similarity really dosent count for much... i think that u find that special person when you dont have to show your love for him. Theres just some sort of silent understanding....

Thats what i believe... call me a love idealist... i don't care :P:P:P

Anonymous said...

i dont believe in love at first sight. maybe sometimes you luck out. but unless you know a person you can't love them. the word love is thrown around too often. love is much deeper than a momentary connection between two strangers. but love means different things to different people...everyone's definition of love is different. and so to each his own?:P oh fun..that again..:P